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What is a Happy Ending Massage? Do I have to ask for a Happy Ending?

In literature, a Happy Ending describes a story where the heroes achieve the best possible outcome. In the The Massage World, a Happy Ending is entirely different, illegal in most places, and not for innocent people.

The Happy Ending is a 20th-century innovation and is also known as a hand job performed at the end of a massage.

Men

Traditionally, the Happy Ending is for men and is performed at the end of a massage. Mainly is a hand job (if you’re a man or person with a penis).

Women

Women also get Happy Ending massage. For them and people with vulvas, a happy ending involves fingering and/or clitoral stimulation.

Different Types of Happy Ending

Today, many industries offer this type of service and can be done in different ways:

  • hand job
  • blow job
  • sex

What happens during a Happy Ending Massage?

Typically, massages will start with you lying face down. Your massage therapist will begin working on your back. They will use hot oils or lotion, depends what you prefer.

Halfway through the massage, you’ll be asked to turn over onto your front. This stage of the massage may involve your neck, face, thighs, chest or breasts.

Towards the end thing will get more sensual and erotic, to prepare the grand final.

Before having a massage session you need to discuss with your masseuse what type of massage you would like to have and what you are expecting to achieve. Everything needs to be clear from the beginning to avoid disappointment and misunderstanding.

– the masseuse can be clothed, topless or naked

– the Massage Type can be Therapeutic, Tantric, Sensual, Erotic or Fetish

– the session can last anything from 30 minutes to 120 minutes.

Do I have to ask for a Happy Ending?

Each masseuse or massage service is likely to operate slightly differently however there are ways to identify if this is an option. Some therapists will be upfront and discuss your needs and expectations beforehand. Others may expect you to ask outright, by asking if they offer ‘extras’.

There are also code words associated with happy ending massages. If a massage is said to finish with a ‘release’ that is likely to mean it will be a happy ending. Gentle touch, light touch and body rub are phrases often associated with happy endings, too. You may even be offered a Nuru or Body to Body massage. Although this type of massage is different from tantric massage as is more about temporary gratification, some massage therapists may offer what they call tantric massages which are actually happy endings.

Whether you choose to clarify beforehand, deploy code words or ask outright, remember to be respectful at all times. And do not ask for sex.

Why do people get Happy Endings?

There are many reasons why people get this type of ‘release’, as massages (and orgasms, naturally) come with loads of great health and wellbeing benefits:

  • Improves emotional wellbeing
  • Relieves tension
  • Boosts your mood
  • They just… feel good
  • Relieves stress and anxiety
  • Lowers blood pressure
  • Helps you sleep
  • Promotes body confidence
  • Can help with premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction

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